Why do  Muslim women gossip  when we know that it is haram in Islam.Islam prohibits back biting and slandering.Gossiping  and slandering are shameful, and disgrace act. The person is  detested and they shall not have a noble death. Allah forbids these acts, as He says in the Qur'an:"Back biting and Gossiping are from  the most vilest and despicable of things, yet the most widely spread amongst mankind, such that no one is free from it except for a few people."Allah says in the Qur'an:"O you who believe! Avoid much suspicion, in deeds some suspicions are sins. And spy not neither backbite one another. Would one of you like to eat the flesh of his dead brother? You would hate it (so hate backbiting). And fear Allah, verily, Allah is The One Who accepts repentance, Most Merciful" (Qur'an 49: 12)In this verse, Allah strongly forbids backbiting, and he compares the backbiter to one who eats the flesh of his dead brother. I don't think any one of us would like to eat their own brothers flesh or sister.. My dear sisters you  should   beware of slipping of your tongues and do not give it free hand to shaitan. Prophet Mohammad (PBUH) also said:"Who protects his tongue from unlawful utterances and his private parts from illegal sexual intercourse; I shall guarantee him entrance into Paradise."Also Abu Mousa Al-Ash�aree narrated that Prophet Mohammad (PBUH) said:"I asked the Messenger of Allah: Who is the best Muslim? The Messenger of Allah replied, "He is the one from whom Muslims are safe from the evil of his tongue and hands. My tip of the day to the sisters  is to stay away from anyone that gossip if you are not able to tell them stop.

Home-Made Burgers with Relish

Sisters making your own burgers means you control what goes into them.I know the kids will love it because these are full of flavors and  you can never go wrong . This home made burgers are easy to make and the best part is that it will take you only about 25mins to make  the burgers.


2shallots chopped
450g\1lb lean minced (ground beef)
30ml\2tbsp chopped parsley
30ml\2tbsp tomato ketchup
1garlic clove, crushed
1fresh green chilli,seeded and finely chopped
15ml\1tbsp olive oil
400g\4oz can ratatouille
4 burger buns
lettuce leaves
salt and ground black peppers  to taste

Preparation 6mintues & Cooking 14mintues 

1.Put the  shallots in a bowl with boiling water to cover leave for 1-2 minutes then slip off the skin put the Shallots on a board and use a small sharp Knife to chop them finely.

2. Mix half the shallots with the beef in a bowl Add the chopped parsley and tomato ketchup with salt and peppers to taste Mix well with clean hands

3. Divide the beef mixture into four knead each portion into a ball then flatten it into a burger.

4. Make a spicy relish by cooking the remaining shallots with the garlic and green  chilli in the olive oil for 2-3minutes until soften.

5. Add the canned ratatouille to the pan containing the vegetables bring to the boil then lower the heat  and simmer for 5minutes .

6.Meanwhile preheat the grill (broiler) and cook the burgers for about 5minutes on each side until browned  and cook through. Meanwhile split the burger buns in Half . Arrange lettuce leaves on the bun bases add the burgers and top with the warm relish and the bun tops

Must have Items if you got children

As a mother the worst thing you can see is your child get hurt  by falling down or  flying off the stairs as they see it fun. But i never a child have a allergy reactions until one day when we were having dinner my daughter who is  2 decided she wanted to eat fish with us and the next thing i see is my daughter Itching  like no one's business the poor kid started to turn red and with bumps my heart drop i did not know what to do after calling the 911 and having the  ambulance come they decided to give her BENADRYL and after 30mins later my dear was doing well Alhamdulilah and i have learn to keep certain items at home so in case you have this kind of emergency. So for you who are a first time parents take it from you please stock up in these items if you have small children in your home the must have items in your first Aid Kit

1. BENADRYL

Sterile adhesive bandages in assorted sizes
 2-inch sterile gauze pads (4-6)
4-inch sterile gauze pads (4-6)
 Hypoallergenic adhesive tape
 Triangular bandages (3)
 2-inch sterile roller bandages (3 rolls)
 3-inch sterile roller bandages (3 rolls)
 Scissors
 Tweezers

Moistened towelettes
Antiseptic
 Thermometer
 Tongue blades (2)
Tube of petroleum jelly or other lubricant
 Assorted sizes of safety pins
 Cleansing agent/soap
 Latex gloves (2 pair)
 Sunscreen
Non-prescription drugs
Aspirin or non aspirin pain reliever
Anti-diarrhea medication
 Antacid (for stomach upset)
 Syrup of Ipecac (use to induce vomiting if advised by the Poison Control Center)
 Laxative
 Activated charcoal (use if advised by the Poison Control Center)..

Modesty vs Fashion

Can you  be modest and still be fashionable that is the Question that everyone talks about .Well as a  Muslim woman i think that Modest should come first before  fashion, because Modest is part of faith . i think that fashion is everywhere that the Muslim sisters are becoming a victim of it. We have sisters that are wearing skinny jeans with hijab or tight clothes with Hijab  this  is not   modesty because your body shape can be seen .Modesty is one of the most Honorable attributes and is a consistent virtue found in all the various laws sent down to each  messenger of Allah.I write down few  conditions  for you to know if your clothes are modest  this also includes our hijabs also sisters.I will also share surah's from the Quran and also the hadith to proof my point and to show you  how important it is for us to wear in the correct matters inshaa Allah.

1. Firstly It should cover all the body apart from whatever has been exempted.

Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

“O Prophet! Tell your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers to draw their cloaks (veils) all over their bodies (i.e. screen themselves completely except the eyes or one eye to see the way). That will be better, that they should be known (as free respectable women) so as not to be annoyed. And Allah is Ever Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.”This aayah clearly states that it is obligatory to cover all of a woman’s beauty and adornments So what does this mean well it  means cover yourself from strangers.

2.Secondly. it should not be an adornment in and of itself . You ask what does this mean it means that ones clothes should not draw attention to them. “… and not to show off their adornment…” [al-Noor 24:31]. The general meaning of this phrase includes the outer garment, because if it is decorated it will attract men attention to her. This is supported by the aayah in Soorat al-Ahzaab (interpretation of the meaning): So sisters becare about wearning clothes that will make you stand out .

3. Thirdly. Our clothes should be thick and not transparent or “see-through . This means not wearing clothes that can be seen through light material stay away from them . because it cannot cover properly otherwise. Transparent or see-through clothing makes a woman more tempting and beautiful. Make sure your clothes are made form material that are heavy sisters..

4. Fourthly:  Your clothes should be loose, not tight so no one can see your body shape.The purpose of clothing is to prevent  (temptation), and this can only be achieved if clothes are wide and loose. Tight clothes, even if they conceal the color of the skin, still describe the size and shape of the body or part of it, and create a vivid image in the minds of men. “The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) gave me a thick Egyptian garment that was one of the gifts given to him by Duhyat al-Kalbi, and I gave it to my wife to wear. He said, ‘Why do I not see you wearing that Egyptian garment?’ I said, ‘I gave it to my wife to wear.’ He said, ‘Tell her to wear a gown underneath it, for I am afraid that it may describe the size of her bones.’” (Narrated by al-Diyaa’ al-Maqdisi in al-Ahaadeeth al-Mukhtaarah, 1/442, and by Ahmad and al-Bayhaqi, with a hasan isnaad).

5 The last but not least is wearing clothes to show off ... That means don't buy expensive clothes that you may show off to others..

Ibn ‘Umar (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: “The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: ‘Whoever wears a garment of fame and vanity in this world, Allaah will clothe him in a garment of humiliation on the Day of Resurrection, then He will cause Fire to flame up around him.’”

(Hijaab al-Mar’ah al-Muslimah, p. 54-67). I pray that this will help our muslimah become more modesty and inshaa Allah our reward will be with Allah..

Sambusa\samosa recipe

                                                                 

 

Sambusa are a pastry that is filled with flavors enjoyed across Africa, the Middle East and South Asia. Sambusa are served as appetizers and snacks at home and at celebrations. Sambusa are extra special during Ramadan.

• Ingredient
• 1 (14 ounce) package spring roll wrappers
• 2 tablespoons olive oil
• 2 pounds ground Beef
• 1 leek, chopped
• 2 teaspoons ground cumin
• 2 teaspoons ground cardamom
• 1 teaspoon salt
• 1 teaspoon pepper
• 1 small Onion, finely chopped
• 1 clove garlic, minced
• 1 tablespoon all-purpose flour
• 1 tablespoon water, or as needed
• 1 quart oil for frying 

 

• Directions
  

1. Heat olive oil in a large skillet over medium heat. Add onions, leek and garlic, and cook, stirring until the onions are transparent. Add ground Beef, and cook until about halfway done. Season with cumin, cardamom, salt and pepper. Mix well, and continue cooking until Beef has browned.
2. In a small dish or cup, mix together the flour and water to make a thin paste. Using one wrapper at a time, fold into the shape of a cone. Fill the cone with the meat mixture, close the top, and seal with the paste. Repeat until wraps or filling are used up.
3. Heat the oil to 365 degrees F (170 degrees C) in a deep-fryer or deep heavy pot. There should be enough oil to submerge the wraps. Fry the Sambusa a few at a time until golden brown. Remove carefully to drain on paper towels.

Friendship

Pick your friends wisely sisters

Sisters please choice your friend wisely  for Muslims like us who are living in a society where we are clearly a minority . The issues of choosing the right friend is important for preserving our Deen so make sure you are befriending  the righteous  and virtuous  Muslim  sisters  and is necessary  means for staying  on the straight path . You don't want a person who will be your friend and lead you away from Allah's path and sometimes we do get distracted, and stray away from Allah's path. but if you have a great friends that will always keep you in the right path than your work will be a lot easier.Walahi sometimes our own Muslim will tell you oh lets go clubbing today or lets go to a house party. Do you ever think of what will happen to you if died in a Club or at party Subhnallah. Don't fall into the traps of Shaytan. So choice sisters that will bring you close to Allah.

I LOVE MANGO SHAKE BECAUSE IT TASTE GOOD AND ALSO WILL FILL YOU UP.. GREAT FOR BREAKING YOUR FAST .  THE KIDS  WILL ALSO LOVE IT BECAUSE EVERYONE LOVES MANGO BUT ALSO IF YOU HAVE A  KID  THAT DOES NOT WANT TO DRINK THEIR MILK YOU Can  ADD A LOT MILK IN THE MANGO SHAKE AND THEY WILL NEVER KNOW THAT YOU ADD MILK TO IT. BECAUSE ALL THEY CARE IS ABOUT THE SWEET TASTE. HERE IS THE RECIPE.. YOU DON'T NEED TO USE THE SUGAR IF YOU ARE MAKING THIS FOR CHILDREN LESS SUGAR IS BETTER.

Ingredient Name

1. Mango\ Mango Pulp  2 2. Milk    1/2 cup 3. Sugar   2 tsp 4 .ICE CUBES 2 Directions:  1.Blend the mango pulp well into a blender .2 add milk ice and mango pulp and blend it well . pour your mango shake in a glass . Don't forget if you don't want to use Mango Pulp you can always buy mango that your local  markets.. Great for hot summer days...